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Wednesday, December 5, 2012

I just being frank

One thing that is a problem with me, sometimes I speak too frank and that's hurt someones feeling..
Kadang2 aku bercakap terlalu berterus terang, tapi percayalah niat aku baik..Aku jenis tak reti nak selindung n aku rasa aku perlu bgth direct je kat org tu aku bagitahu je, bila dah bercakap kadang2 aku lupe apa benda yg aku cakap, bila aku teringat balik, baru aku terpikir yg benda yg aku cakap tu boleh buat org sentap eventhough it is true..
This was what happened yesterday..bila aku tersound sorang minah kat opis ni..minah ni keje bagus, tapi kurang kat attitude..asek nak berangin, emo n sentap stok hempas2 barang sume, pastu gaduh ngan team mate sana sini pasal hal remeh temeh, mengaku diri nya perfect selama 16 th keje x penah buat silap, eh hellooo...you are just human, and human makes mistake, you have no right to claim that you are perfect..dan banyak lagi lah..
So bile aku bersuara semalam, niat aku hanyalah utk bagi sikit kesedaran padanya walau tak banyak, sikit pon jadilah..sebab aku tahu takde org berani sound minah ni sebelum ni,tu yg dia naik lemak tuh...tapi bile niat baik disalah ertikan, bile kata2 disalahertikan, tu yg jadi lain..aku bukan berniat nak gaduh ngan dia ke apa..
I might said something harsh that sounds like this, belajar tinggi2 tapi takde otak (which honestly i didn't remember saying that, see, thats another problem with me)..what I meant for her was, ko dah belajar tinggi2, kata CGPA 3++, so act like org yg educatedlah, jangan letak mentaliti ko separas lutut dengan perangai tak matured ko tu..tapi obviously you just don get it...*sigh*
As maknosia, kadang2 kita tak lari dari buat kesilapan n we need to be corrected..put aside your ego buat seketika, cuba ambik yg positive komen org lain terhadap diri kita..Aku pon cuba prektis macam tu, walaupon as a saying goes kejujuran itu amat menyakitkan, tapi yg jujur tu lah diperlukan, daripada yg fake..

1 comment:

Kniedaz said...

susah kalau org tak boleh ditegur..lepas tu tak faham lagi kot atas..mmm

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